The Impact of Social Media on your Divorce

Social media is a regular part of life. From posting vacation photos to sharing daily thoughts, many people don’t think twice before publishing content online. But if you’re going through a divorce, social media can quickly shift from harmless fun to a damaging liability.

What You Post Can Be Used Against You

Everything you post, photos, comments, likes, check-ins, can potentially be used as evidence against you in court. That includes:

• Posts showing lavish spending during a financial dispute.
  
  
• Messages or comments contradicting your legal claims.
  
  
• Photos of partying or substance use when parenting ability is in question.
  
  
• Posts that insult or disparage your ex-spouse, especially during custody proceedings.

Even if your profile is set to private, there are ways for attorneys and spurned spouses to access social media content, so be careful.

How Social Media Can Affect Custody and Support

Washington courts make custody decisions based on the best interests of the child. A single post, like a photo from a late-night bar outing or a rant about your co-parent, can call your judgment into question. In support cases, posts that suggest hidden income or financial stability may undercut requests for support or justify reductions.

Smart Social Media Habits During Divorce

If you are in a divorce, the best thing you can do is lock down your social media and just stop posting anything until the separation is complete. Otherwise, here are a few tips:

• Avoid posting about the case or your ex.
  
  
• Don't share financial information or large purchases.
  
  
• Be cautious with dating app activity and photos.
  
  
• Think twice before commenting on mutual friends' posts.
  
  
• Don’t post anything that you think your spouse, or the court, would find negative

What About Your Ex's Social Media?

If your former spouse is posting inappropriately, your attorney may be able to use that content as evidence. However, it’s important to avoid logging into their accounts or accessing private information illegally. Instead, take screenshots of public content and share them with your lawyer.

Working with Legal Professionals Who Understand the Modern Landscape

During a divorce, everything matters. The smallest post can create a big problem. Social media can either support or sabotage your goals, so treat it as part of your legal strategy.

At Magnuson Lowell, P.S., we understand how digital footprints affect legal outcomes. We’ll help you navigate your divorce while protecting your interests. Contact us for a free telephone case evaluation 425-800-0573!