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Should You File for Divorce First in Washington?
Written By: Josh Lowell ~ 8/11/2025

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While Washington is a no-fault divorce state, meaning you don’t need to prove wrongdoing to end a marriage, the decision to file first can still carry strategic value. Many people wonder if there’s a legal benefit to being the petitioner the spouse who initiates the divorce. Frankly, the answer is mostly no. However, that’s not always the case, and you should speak with an attorney to understand your options.

Procedural Benefits of Filing First

Filing first can allow you to:

  • Choose the county where the case is filed, if spouses live in different locations.

  • Set the initial tone of the case with your preferred Parenting Plan or Proposed Order.

  • Present your requests before your spouse responds.

  • Be more prepared emotionally and financially, having gathered documents and hired counsel ahead of time.

Service Timing and Temporary Orders

Filing first also gives you control over when and how your spouse is served with the paperwork. This can be important if you're worried about your spouse hiding assets, moving children, or retaliating. After filing, you may request temporary orders to establish ground rules for finances, parenting, and housing while the case proceeds.

Are There Drawbacks?

There may be a filing fee (a few hundred dollars), and you'll be first to submit required forms. Additionally, filing first may surprise or upset the other spouse, potentially increasing tension. If you expect an amicable split, it’s worth discussing mutual timing and filing jointly where appropriate.

Strategic Timing Can Matter

Filing before your spouse doesn’t guarantee a better outcome, but it often allows for better planning and control during a highly stressful time.

At Magnuson Lowell, P.S., we offer free telephone consultations 425-800-0573 to help you understand your options before you take the first step. If you're thinking about divorce in Washington, we can guide you through the process with preparation and confidence.


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Navigating a Divorce Involving a Special Needs Child in Washington
Written By: Josh Lowell ~ 8/4/2025

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Divorces are already complex, but when a child with special needs is involved, the process requires even greater care and planning. In Washington, courts prioritize the best interests of the child, and those needs can be significantly more involved when disabilities or medical conditions are present.

Parenting Plans Must Reflect Specialized Needs

Standard parenting plans often fall short in cases involving a child with special needs. A well-crafted plan should account for:

  • Medical routines and medication schedules

  • Educational accommodations and therapy appointments

  • Consistency in daily structure and environment

  • Decision-making protocols for specialized care

Flexibility is key, but stability and predictability are often even more important for a special needs child.

Child Support and Extraordinary Expenses

Washington's standard child support calculations may not fully cover the expenses of raising a child with special needs. Parents may need to consider:

  • Increased medical costs

  • Specialized transportation

  • Long-term care planning

  • Additional childcare or supervision requirements

Courts can order deviations from the standard support schedule to address these realities, but judges retain discretion whether or not to deviate.

Decision-Making Authority and Disagreements

Major disagreements may arise about healthcare, schooling, or therapeutic interventions. In some cases, joint decision-making may be unworkable. Courts can assign sole decision-making authority in specific areas to avoid delays or conflicts that could harm the child. The Court can also appoint a Guardian ad Litem (GAL) to represent the child’s best interests and make recommendations.

Long-Term Planning

Special needs children often require support beyond age 18. Your divorce plan should consider:

  • Guardianship arrangements

  • Special Needs Trusts to protect public benefits

  • Post-secondary education or transition programs

Planning ahead ensures the child’s financial and personal care needs are met long after the divorce is finalized. Just note that failure to modify a child support order before the prior child support order terminates may preclude you from seeking modification.

Legal Guidance Matters

Working with an experienced Washington divorce attorney is essential in these situations. At Magnuson Lowell, P.S., we help parents develop detailed, customized plans that prioritize the well-being of their special needs children. Call us today 425-800-0576 for a free telephone case evaluation to start building a future that works for your entire family.


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The Role of a Parenting Evaluator in Washington Divorce Cases
Written By: Josh Lowell ~ 7/28/2025

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In high-conflict custody cases, Washington courts may appoint a neutral third party, called a parenting evaluator, to help assess what arrangement best serves the child’s interests. A parenting evaluator is typically a licensed mental health professional or social worker trained to evaluate family dynamics and make custody-related recommendations.

When Are Parenting Evaluators Appointed?

Courts usually appoint a parenting evaluator when:

  • Parents cannot agree on a parenting plan

  • One or both parents raise concerns about abuse, neglect, or substance abuse

  • There are questions about a child’s emotional or psychological well-being

  • There is a request to limit a parent’s time or decision-making authority under RCW 26.09.191

The parties may agree to appoint a Parenting Evaluator if they cannot agree on a Parenting Plan. Otherwise, either parent can request an evaluation from the court, or the judge may order one on their own.

What Does the Evaluation Involve?

The parenting evaluator will conduct a thorough review of each parent's ability to care for the child. This often includes:

  • Interviews with each parent and the child (if mature enough)

  • Observations of parent-child interactions

  • Reviewing relevant documents (court records, medical records, school reports)

  • Contacting third parties (teachers, doctors, counselors, etc.)

  • Possibly conducting psychological testing if concerns arise

The evaluator then compiles a written report with findings and recommendations for the court.

How Does the Court Use the Report?

While judges are not required to follow the evaluator’s recommendations, they often give the report significant weight. The evaluator’s insights can help the court craft a parenting plan that aligns with the child’s best interests, especially when other evidence is conflicting or lacking.

Tips for Working with a Parenting Evaluator

  • Be Honest: Evaluators can often detect when someone is withholding information or exaggerating.

  • Stay Child-Focused: The evaluator is looking for what benefits the child—not what hurts the other parent.

  • Be Respectful: Showing anger, hostility, or contempt during the process can reflect poorly.

  • Be Prepared: Keep documents organized and be ready to explain your parenting style, involvement, and concerns.

Protect Your Rights With Legal Guidance

The parenting evaluation process can be emotional and complex. Having an experienced family law attorney can help you prepare, present your case effectively, and respond to any concerning findings in the report.

At Magnuson Lowell, P.S., we offer free telephone 425-800-0573 case evaluations to discuss your options and rights in a Washington parenting case. Let us help you protect your relationship with your child and secure a fair outcome.


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