The Role of a Parenting Evaluator in Washington Divorce Cases

In high-conflict custody cases, Washington courts may appoint a neutral third party, called a parenting evaluator, to help assess what arrangement best serves the child’s interests. A parenting evaluator is typically a licensed mental health professional or social worker trained to evaluate family dynamics and make custody-related recommendations.

When Are Parenting Evaluators Appointed?

Courts usually appoint a parenting evaluator when:

• Parents cannot agree on a parenting plan
  
  
• One or both parents raise concerns about abuse, neglect, or substance abuse
  
  
• There are questions about a child’s emotional or psychological well-being
  
  
• There is a request to limit a parent’s time or decision-making authority under RCW 26.09.191

The parties may agree to appoint a Parenting Evaluator if they cannot agree on a Parenting Plan. Otherwise, either parent can request an evaluation from the court, or the judge may order one on their own.

What Does the Evaluation Involve?

The parenting evaluator will conduct a thorough review of each parent's ability to care for the child. This often includes:

• Interviews with each parent and the child (if mature enough)
  
  
• Observations of parent-child interactions
  
  
• Reviewing relevant documents (court records, medical records, school reports)
  
  
• Contacting third parties (teachers, doctors, counselors, etc.)
  
  
• Possibly conducting psychological testing if concerns arise

The evaluator then compiles a written report with findings and recommendations for the court.

How Does the Court Use the Report?

While judges are not required to follow the evaluator’s recommendations, they often give the report significant weight. The evaluator’s insights can help the court craft a parenting plan that aligns with the child’s best interests, especially when other evidence is conflicting or lacking.

Tips for Working with a Parenting Evaluator

• Be Honest: Evaluators can often detect when someone is withholding information or exaggerating.
  
  
• Stay Child-Focused: The evaluator is looking for what benefits the child—not what hurts the other parent.
  
  
• Be Respectful: Showing anger, hostility, or contempt during the process can reflect poorly.
  
  
• Be Prepared: Keep documents organized and be ready to explain your parenting style, involvement, and concerns.

Protect Your Rights With Legal Guidance

The parenting evaluation process can be emotional and complex. Having an experienced family law attorney can help you prepare, present your case effectively, and respond to any concerning findings in the report.

At Magnuson Lowell, P.S., we offer free telephone 425-800-0573 case evaluations to discuss your options and rights in a Washington parenting case. Let us help you protect your relationship with your child and secure a fair outcome.