How to Handle GAL Investigation in your Divorce

A Guardian ad Litem (GAL) is appointed by the court to act as a neutral investigator in family law cases involving children. Their job is to gather information and make recommendations to the judge about what is in the child’s best interests. In Washington, GALs often play a major role in custody and parenting plan disputes, so how you interact with them can have a direct impact on your case.

First Impressions Matter

From the very first meeting, the GAL will be observing your demeanor, communication style, and how you talk about your child and the other parent. Remember:

• Be on time to scheduled meetings and observations.
  
  
• Dress neatly and present yourself respectfully.
  
  
• Show that you are prepared and organized.

Be Honest and Transparent

The GAL’s investigation will likely include interviews, home visits, and review of records. If you withhold information or try to hide facts, it will almost always come out later.

• Answer questions directly and truthfully.
  
  
• If there are negative aspects to your history, address them openly and explain what you’ve done to address them.
  
  
• Don’t exaggerate or speculate. Stick to facts you know are accurate.

Focus on the Child, Not the Conflict

The GAL’s job is not to take sides; it’s to evaluate what will best serve the child’s interests.

• Speak about your child’s needs, strengths, and routines.
  
  
• Avoid making personal attacks on the other parent. Instead, express concerns factually and with examples.
  
  
• Demonstrate that you can put your child’s well-being ahead of personal grievances.

Provide Useful Documentation

A GAL’s recommendations are based on evidence. You can help by providing:

• School records, report cards, and attendance reports
  
  
• Medical or therapy records
  
  
• Parenting calendars or communication logs
  
  
• Evidence of your involvement in the child’s life (photos, activity schedules, etc.)

Organize your materials before submitting them to the GAL. Overwhelming them with irrelevant documents can be counterproductive. Ask the GAL if there is specific information and documentation they might find useful.

Cooperate Fully with the Process

• Return calls and emails promptly.
  
  
• Be available for scheduled interviews and home visits.
  
  
• Follow any specific requests from the GAL without delay.
  
  
• Never attempt to coach your child on what to say.

Expect Balanced Investigation

A GAL will speak to both parents, review each home environment, and may interview third parties like teachers, doctors, or counselors. Their recommendations are not final decisions but carry significant weight in the court’s ruling.

Why Legal Guidance Matters

Your attorney can help you prepare for GAL meetings, organize your documentation, and ensure your interactions are constructive. Since a GAL’s report can heavily influence the judge, taking this process seriously is essential.

At Magnuson Lowell, P.S., we guide our clients through every stage of working with a Guardian ad Litem. If you’re in a custody dispute in Washington, call us for a free telephone case evaluation 425-800-0573 so we can help you protect your rights and present your best case to the GAL.

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